Keep Yourself Healthy with Oil and Butter (…Continued)

Kabla is generally not seen in his seats from 3.30pm to somewhere round 6.00pm because this is the time span of his playing carom in the time-pass room of iThrust. By this time let us shift our focus to some other people of considerable importance to iThrust. Let’s see what our ‘Best Idea Giver’ is doing. I am talking about Paachu Da’s favorite 'Ghanta The Great'.

Ghanta joined iThrust about some 2 years back as a Management Intern. But within this 2 years span Ghanta has proved his efficiency in lot many things (will come shortly) and bagged an award this month by Paachu Da. He has already become an important resource of iThrust next to Ghanashyam da. He is a young, energetic, proactive guy, 5ft 10 inches in height, weighing around 120 kgs with some extra saturated fat molecules from his tummy, neck and back constantly fighting with each other to change their configurations whenever he is waking or jerking to his seat or talking to someone. Even his slightest movement sets those obese areas in a juggling mode. Another very interesting point regarding him is that he always wears low rise trousers or may be it seems so because any pair of standard waist sized trousers cannot cross his huge belly; that’s why resemble like that of a low rise sort. Ghanta is every time seen to lift his trousers while walking. He seriously struggles a lot to keep his trousers in place to avoid embarrassing “Wardrobe Malfunction”- type circumstances.


Ghanasyam da has gone for smoking after the Coffee Beans presentation and when he is returning to his cubicle he turns green to find that his dear Tushi is sitting at Ghanta’s cubicle and laughing and talking with him. Ghana Da basically is a cool guy and doesn’t seem to have any problem with anybody in the office. But recently its Ghanta, who has become quite alarming and disturbing for him especially because Tushi’s changed attitude towards him. Ghana Da at times feels very insecured and helpless due to Ghanta as he very well knows that Ghanta is much younger than him and has higher ‘USP’ in terms of following factors. Number one: Ghanta belongs to a rich family, son of a rich business man. Number two: Ghanta is a very clever guy and understands the business very much. He very well knows whom he has to please in order to get a good position in iThrust and as a consequence with his sincere buttering approach he has suddenly become very closed to Paachu da. With a restless mind and sorrowful heart Ghana Da settles in his cubicle but his mind remains attached toTushi and waits for her return to her seat.

“Hi hi Hi, Ho, Ho, aah , Oof Ghanta you are too much; please don’t crack such jokes”, it seems that the sound of Fultushi’s voice is heard from every corner of the office especially each of her loud conversation was cracking Ghana da’s heart. Fultushi is laughing, flattering with Ghanta and same from the other side. Ghanta cracks his MPJs to please Fultushi. Ghanta can do anything for her because for the first time in his life a girl is sitting so close to him and laughing at his jokes. He remembers that in his college days girls hated him because of his cunning attitude and ugly overweight appearance. But Fultushi is an exception. “She is such a nice girl”, Ghanta murmured to himself. But hey readers you also know that it’s very difficult for a man to understand a woman. It is said that Women’s heart is a secret of deep oceans, deeper you sink, darker it will appear. Fultushi’s quality is that she can mix up with any man in this planet to get high praises for herself from them or just to impress them. But you will hardly find out a single female acquaintance of her in iThrust. “O Ghanta , please stop now, tell me some important things about our ‘GAIToPDF’ and ‘WealthSciences’ project, please give some suggestions on those projects….” (Both the projects are running okay, no need of suggestions at least they can wait for client’s feedback )…Fultushi’s nagging habit..can’t help…”Fultushi I won’t talk, You told me to stop”, Ghanta argued staring at her expressions. Fultushi slapped lightly on Ghanta’s back, “Please Ghanta, and come to the point, after all you are the best idea giver”… “Yes, I have many ideas of quality time we both can spend together after office today”, Ghanta gives an inviting smile. Fultushi is feeling flattered and said, “Uff don’t joke now you will be staying with Paachu Da till 2.30 am, though you actually don’t have anything to do, as if I don’t know why you stay, you stay only to please him, to show him you are working so hard”; Ghanta, the kind of guy he is, won’t take that blow, “And why you stay till 8.30pm, when you have nothing to do either, that also I know, don’t you stay for Ghana da”, Ghanta returned the blow to Tushi. “Enough Ghanta, Don’t take Ghana Da’s name, I truly respect that guy and by the way why you are so concerned”…Their unnecessary conversation go on for hours. Actually I am wrong here.. Everything happens in our life need not to be ‘necessary’ all the time, right? We do like some unnecessary moments as this conversation of Ghanta and Fultushi. “Uff, I am going back to my seat, no need of giving any ideas”, Fultushi, though not actually irritated, reveals like she is highly offended. “Oh Tushi please aah eeh I mean, listen to me, please seat, aah I was just kidding”.


Fultushi very well knows that she can impress Ghanta but he is very clever unlike Ghana Da. He is a hard nut to crack in the terms that he can flatter her for hours but he is such a miser that he will never spend a penny for her unconditionally like Ghana Da. He is guy who knows how to fetch the returns on the investment and in case if he ever takes her to lunch he knows very well to extract from her the double he spends. “O I will also see how to crack such a nut, let me see what’s Ghana Da is doing”, she murmured to herself and returned back to her cubicle giving Ghana da a big innocent grin. Ghana da once again dissolves in her smile.

Ghanta felt very relieved of his privacy as Fultushi left his cubicle and so now he is free to do certain private things like, he has a habit of hunting treasures from his huge nostrils. Likewise he put his chubby first finger of his right hand into his nostrils which are usually very big and also some elasticity of human flesh makes the path easier for his plump finger. Actually those treasures accumulate very quickly inside his nostrils. In the morning itself after coming to office he has cleaned both his nostrils in the washroom making huge sound. But again they accumulated. Anyways Ghanta like to hunt those treasures. His another private work is to insert toothpicks between his teeth to clean the chewed tobaccos which he generally chews throughout the day. Besides this, due to his overweight body he sweats a lot even in the air condition of the office. As a result he has developed a itching problem in his underarms zone. So he feels very happy while he itches his underarms.

“Ummm Ghana Da feeling a bit hungry, its already 5 pm now, let’s go outside and have some snacks”..Fultushi yawns..”Definitely Tushi, I would love to”, Ghana da jerked in his seat. Fultushi smiles to herself..
....(To be continued)

Keep Yourself Healthy With Oil and Butter (Continued……..)

After the lunch break, Kabla generally goes to the smoking zone with his partners or plays carom in the Time-Pass room of the office. Today Kabla preferred playing carom while he remembers about Kobra Da’s mail in the morning which says that today there will be a knowledge sharing session in the Conference room which every employee of i-lThrust has to attend and that the session will start by 2.30 pm. Kabla checked his watch, ”Oh its almost 2.30, no probs let me get another 5 / 10 minutes late more so as to get a seat beside Paachu Da ” he murmured to himself as he knows very well that Paachu is always late for any session and those who are late always manage to get seat beside him in the Conf. room.



The Conf. room of iThrust is full today; even some people are standing who haven’t got seats. It’s an elegant room with a big center table and has sitting arrangements of nearly 40 people fully equipped with all the advanced mechanisms like huge white screen, projector for presentations, sound absorbing roof and walls for echo prevention. Paachu Da, the super technical boss of i-Thrust is still not been seen in the room. Before the session starts let me put some light on His Highness Paachu Da the Great. Paachu Da is a brilliant guy, I think Genius would the term to define him. Everything about him is unconventional, his knowledge in myriads of various subjects to his brilliance in various Technologies, his hairstyle of a cute pony-tail to his personality, his versatility to his blogs; every, every small thing about him is unconventional. His food habits, his biological clock (working at night, and sleeping in the day), his energy, his ideas, his works, his thought process, everything is unmatched in i-Thrust. Thought he is technologically versatile, yet he is obsessed with a particular technology called PointWeb and thus he is little prejudiced about his fellow PointWeb team members. I-Thrust has been operating with basically two main technologies, CoffeeBeans and PointWeb. Since Paachu da, the big boss, is too much passionate for PointWeb, as a consequence the CoffeeBeans Teams members are bit neglected both in terms of hike in salary, designation and quality of work they get; whereas PointWeb Team enjoys a superiority over CoffeeBeans Team getting a nice shelter at the blue-eyed silhouette of the solid roof named ‘Mr Paachu Phepre ’, the Chief Officer of i-Thrust. One thing more I like to mention about Paachu Da is what I have mentioned before also is Paachu Da’s unusual food habit. Though he claims he does not take outside food yet his total meal largely comprises of different kinds of chips of different brands, bananas, some other home-made snacks, Maggi etc. Kobra da seems very fond of or rather proud of Paachu Da’s unusual habits. Of course, Kobra Da doesn’t have another option; being a Hr he has to say ‘Yes/No’ to that of Paachu Da’s respective ‘Yes/No’ as Paachu is the one and the only operating officer of iThrust.



Well, though Paachu Da is still not present in the session, seeing the time constraint Kobra Da requested one of the CoffeeBeans Team to proceed with their presentation. Kabla feels very drowsy in the Conf. Room and says in a low tone to Ghana Da (both being in the PointWeb Team), “What a boring presentation!”! A smug smile crossed across Ghana Da’s Face. Of course, Fultushi is sitting next to Ghana Da (as expected) and Ghana da seems more interested in staring at Fultushi escaping her glances than listening to the boring presentation. Fultushi always keeps a seat for Ghana Da beside her in any meeting. Suddenly Kabla gets overwhelmed to see that the door of the Conf. room slightly opens and ‘yeahhh’ Paachu Da arrives with his two hands full of packs of chips and bananas and other foods etc. As soon as Paachu settles in the room, Kabla throws his enormous body out in the air from the chair he was sitting and landed almost at Paachu da’s lap and snatches one of the chips packets from Paachu Da’s hand as if he has been starving for ages. The person as well as the people in the room who are listening to the demo feels very disturbed by Kabla’s behavior, but Kabla, Paachu da, I mean the whole PointWeb team give very little importance to their feelings. After all they are PointWeb members; they can do anything in the office. Kobra da, who is well versed with corporate etiquettes and decorum, also gets amused with Kabla’s behavior, of course since Paachu is okay with that he obviously has no authority to be annoyed at such things. The Session goes on. Suddenly the presenter stops as he gets disturbed with some munching and crunching sound. Everybody in the room looks around to know where the sound comes from and sees Paachu Da, Kabla, Ghana da etc all are munching chips making sound in between the demo. The Presenter carries on “If you click on this button you will be able to see”…. Munch, munch, munch, (again Paachu da is munching)..”a popup which says that”..munch..(Paachu da)…..”Please register yourself to use the service” …ha ha ha, hoho, hehehe (Kabla laughs)…The Presenter feels very annoyed and down. They are talking among themselves, sometimes laughing also. It makes little difference to them whether somebody is disturbed or not. Paachu da’s philosophy of life is to eat, munch making sounds, and laugh when some other person is talking in the meeting. Every other person except him is a foolish fellow in i-thrust and he likes to munch at them when they are talking at least if it is not a demo of his favorite PointWeb Team or the person speaking is not his blue-eyed baby like his favorite Ghanta who has been given ‘A Best Idea Giver and Care Taker’ award this month by Paachu da…

I will come to Ghanta shortly. Anyways the CoffeeBeans’ Session gets over and Kabla feels released.."Yeahhh its Carom time now!".
(…To be Continued………….)

Keep Yourself Healthy with Oil and Butter

“Arrey Paachu Da, today again chips”, Kabla gives an unnecessary big grin to his boss while managing a handful of corn chips from Paachu Da’s hand.. This is not the first time he managed to snatch a handful from his boss Paachu’s packet of chips which sometimes Paachu reluctantly shares with Kabla, Gobindo, Poncha and a few more are there in the list who every time tries to snatch Paachu’s day time food which consists of few packs of corn chips and potato chips and a dozen of bananas..

Kabla’s normal day starts with waking up in the morning at 9’o clock which Kabla considers very early, gulps down six jumbo sized ghee fried alu-parathas, two boiled eggs and a glass of creamy milk in the breakfast prepared by his mother, who being a very affectionate, gentle lady always concerns for her son’s health and remains very worried with the thought of her son’s getting weak by taking such a paltry diet. Kabla then hurries to the bus-stand to get the office cab which is scheduled to pick him up at 9.45am. He boards the cab while giving a quick glimpse at the other seats of the Tata Sumo to get an idea of the sitting position of his nice female office colleagues in the cab as well as to gain an instant knowledge of their attires.. Kabla very well knows that how this knowledge will help him in the knowledge sharing sessions with Gobindo, Poncha, Ghanta as soon as he reaches office.. Although Kabla sometimes gets green with Gobindo who not only always coordinates those session but has a better observation power in terms of the dresses, the vital stats and many other parameters of his office girls, yet he considers himself a better contender as Gobindo is an ugly short heighted obese married man with a 4yrs old son..Kabla considers himself genuinely handsome with pair small black greedy eyes, long poking nose, curly hairs, very fair complexion, medium heighted with a very well bulged tummy..

Anyways, Kabla makes his sitting comfortable in the cab and starts his idiotic conversation with Fultushi, sitting beside him in the middle row of the Sumo. Fultushi is a nice young girl except few very irritating facts that she considers herself Miss World and her continuous, unnecessary chats especially with the boys will give a person a beautiful headache even if he/she is not participating with her in her irritating chat session. I have given her a special name, ‘The chatter box’. Who am I? I will ask my readers to have little patience before I come to my introduction. Let’s go back to Kabla’s schedule.

Kabla manages to give his attendance to the office by swapping his access card in the electronically controlled entrance system and logs into his system. After checking few mail accounts, bank accounts, and orkut, facebook, legbook, handbook and myriads of other ‘etc-book’ accounts (thanks to the social networking sites), Kabla gets charged up and feels like smoking. Since smoking is prohibited inside the office, he goes to his smoking partners, Gobindo, Ghanta, Poncha and asks them to join him. They all seem very happy with Kabla’s proposal and joins Kabla not only in Smoking but their ‘special’ knowledge sharing sessions. Sometimes the Hr of iThrust, (the name of our company), Kobra da also joins them in the smoking zone. Kobra Da is a very descent guy and doesn’t like Kabla n company’s knowledge sharing sessions except the fact the he uses the word ‘exigency’ instead of ‘emergency’ too much in his mails whenever there is a reason to fire mails to all-employees-Kolkata@ i-thrust.com. Kobra Da is a nice person and crazy about sports be it is cricket or football or indoor games say ‘carom’.

After such a nice smoking Kabla returns to his cubicle, opens his system; while doing so he starts chatting with Fultushi, giving a big yawn says, ”What a hectic day, so many works to do!”.. yawn… “Ah! Fultushi, when is Ghanasyam Da coming?" ..yawn.." You must be knowing his timings”… a very big yawn….

Fultushi, who sits next to Kabla, is not found in her seat most of the time, rather she is found either in Ghanasyam Da’s cubicle or in her recent chat partner Ghanta’s cubicle.. In spite of her unnecessary chatting habits with male colleagues, Fultushi is otherwise very proactive, sincere girl, try to show a lots of attitude (especially in front of Ghanasyam da and Ghanta and few more guys are there in the list), which she doesn’t have, ends up in immense foolishness or stupidity…She sometimes becomes or at least shows hyper-pro activeness in any project (either she is a part of or not). Ghanasyam Da who is the direct reporting boss of Fultushi, Kabla, Gobindo, as well as me is very fond of Fultushi. Ghanasyam Da is a nice guy almost in his mid thirties but still a bachelor, enjoys Fultushi's company very much, often takes her out to lunch.. Fultushi knowing his weak point, takes this as an advantage and gives him an extra lift by flirting, blushing , going out with him, even enjoying the remarks which others throw at her regarding her relationship with her dear Ghana Da (Ghanasyam in short) especially in front of him. Fultushi represents herself to be utterly innocent as if understanding nothing at all but at the deep core of her heart she knows that this flirting ends within the boundaries of office only; she is never going to be a part of Ghana Da’s lonely life.. Higher Ghana will float in Fultushi’s sweet dreams, better will be Fultushi’s position in iThrust.. Fultushi’s approach has given her a very good hike both in her salary and designation this year and she knows this is very right to survive in this industry… Hey readers I think there is at least one Ghanasyam da and one Fultushi in every company and this is what we say in hindi “Chit bhi apni , pat be apna” means a win-win situation for both the parties. Our super boss Paachu Da in very happy with Fultushi and why not, he seldom gets high praises for Fultushi from his favourite Ghanasyam.

Well we have shifted a mile from Kabla and Fultushi’s Conversation.. Fultushi gets very amused with Kabla’s remark about her and her Ghana da as well as with his big yawn. “Uff, Cant you yawn silently, you are making such a noise that I can’t concentrate” ..Fultushi responded back to Kabla ..“and by the way why I should be knowing of Ghana Da’s timings”..Fultushi added blushingly…In the meantime Ghanasyam Da arrives wearing a funky shirt, it seems he has such a bad dressing sense. Ghanasyam Da settles in his seat giving a quick glimpse at Fultushi from top to bottom accompanied by a very special eye contact with her. Fultushi who is well acquainted with Ghana’s cheap (oops! sorry readers, the word should be ‘praising’) look responds him back with an innocent but inviting smile. “Whats going on Kabla”, Ghana commanded..”Why are you irritating our dear Tushi (Ghana calls her in that name)”..Kabla chuckles “yeh Ghana Da, aa , I mean, aa, ee, oo, uu, ii, (all the five vowels), there is so much traffic on road no!.. I mean I was asking Fultushi whether you are coming today, aa, oooo you are looking so handsome today, where have you bought this shirt from? Its suits you so much! ” a smooth layer of butter which Kabla is very much professional in layering both Ghana da as well as Paachu Da..Ghana seems extremely pleased with Kabla’s complement (butter) that the butterfly red collar of his yellow shirt went up and he stares at her dear Tushi for her complement as well..Tushi goes close to Ghana da and takes out her handkerchief and starts to clear the white dusts on Ghana’s collar..”Oh yes Ghana da you are looking so young and dashing in this Shirt..Some dusts were here spoiling your collar. Now it’s okay I have cleared them. ”.. Dear readers those white dusts are not dusts which Fultushi also knows, but dandruffs from Ghana’s almost bald un-shampood head for months (three fourth of his hairs have fallen)..She knows very well that he is such a dirty fellow not washing himself for months or brushing his teeth..However, Fultushi’s gesture makes Ghana extremely pleased. A high adrenaline rush increases his heart beat. Fultushi taking the full opportunity of the circumstance naggingly adds “Ghana Da there is nothing special in Canteen today”..”Oh Don’t you worry dear, I will take you to ‘Dopium‘ for lunch today..”..Fultushi chuckles “Oh Ghana Da you are such a dear!”..Kabla stares at them frustrated and wonders if he can be borne as a girl in his next birth….But Fultushi’s mission is accomplished…
(To be continued…………….)

Life and Spirituality

The great monk Swami Vivekananda told that ‘an Atheist is a person who does not believe in himself’…The quote has meaning in many dimensions… We know that we call a person to be an atheist when he is a nonbeliever of the God, the supreme power. Again if we go through the words of the monk there will be a clear inference that if an atheist does not believe his own self means he doesn’t believe his inner soul; in other words God is nothing but the hidden power within us, our mind, our soul, our conscience.


This is often a topic of debate that “Does God exit”? The light, darkness, happiness, sorrow, anger cannot be seen, we can only feel those in our senses; likewise, we can feel His presence in our soul. He is abstract but present everywhere in every form within every molecule and atoms which constitutes this Universe. He is the combined power of five elements of the Universe- The Earth, The Wind, The Water, The Fire and The Space. It is being said that when a person dies his body and soul are not destroyed but according to the scientific theory of Conservation of Energy, they get transformed to these five elements of the Universe. In a sense the soul is never destroyed but only goes through a transition. It also means that a man is a combination of all these five elements which are altogether nothing but God. This fact is analogous to a beam of white light which when enters a prism gets diffracted and splits into its seven components, VIBGYOR and by using a second prism these components can be recomposed back to the same beam of white light.


Once I attended a spiritual seminar where the speaker who is also a professor in the department of Physics asked the audience “Who is bigger, you or the Sea”. Most of us answered that of course the Sea is bigger. But he explained us that we are bigger since we can see the vastness of the sea with our eyes, we can smell and touch its water; we can feel its strength, its magnificence, and its enormity. The speech greatly influenced me. It’s very true that we are bigger, we have our own thought process, we can do anything and everything, we have the abilities to feel the unbound nature of the Universe; we are infinite. It’s only if we can see ourselves in that way, if we can come out of our ignorance, if we can build all that is good, that is truthful within us, if we can believe in ourselves, then surely one day we will sense that enormous power of Infinity, the Supreme, the Almighty within us.


I don’t believe in any of the religious rituals. People are fool to me who believes that by fasting in name of God or doing various religious rituals (constituting all sorts of odd things) they can get some ‘Punya’. This is absolutely bull-shit. I am profane in the sense that I am not bound to any religion. The one and only religion, race, caste and creed to me is Humanity. If we forget this we can never attain our ‘Moksh’-the Salvation. How many of us even bother to look at the street children who are living on a penny, survive on the food we throw in the dust-bin, roam around with no or very little clothes? Hardly we bother to care also. Every one of us wants change in the Society but nobody brings the change. We can suggest a change very easily but we cannot pioneer it.. The irony lies in the fact that most of us are spending a huge amount of money and resources every year to visit Baishna Devi, Mecca-Medina, to attain the same ‘punya’ but when it comes of giving a penny to any relief fund, to children welfare, we hesitate. We can spend large amount of money for ‘Prasad’, ‘Yagnya’ and all other things but we cannot spent to buy food to at least one street child. We even treat the street animals very badly because they cannot speak, they are of no use to us..We forget that they also suffer from terrible pain when we beat them or torture them…All of you, please believe me you cannot get God by going to Mandir, Masjid or churches.. God is in ourselves, in the goodness of our souls..We can realize him if we can show truthfulness, kindness to those who need us in our surroundings.. The couples who don’t have child can everyday pray to God for having child spending much on the rituals but they cannot go to an orphanage and adopt a poor orphan. We are in total darkness, in complete ignorance…Nobody can help us; we have to help ourselves. We have to change our way of looking into things, we have to broaden our horizon, we have to open all the doors which enter our heart and soul, we have to educate ourselves not to follow the age-old superstitions and rituals but to enhance our logical thinking..The spiritual upliftment comes with the upliftment of our mind, heart and soul.. The buoyancy should be in our motivation of serving poor and destitute, proving ourselves as truly humane.
This is my spiritualism; All I know about spirituality is this.

Feminism in my thoughts

Hi, this being my first blog, I would like to welcome you all to the Age of Transition. Being a woman I would like talk a bit about Feminism..
Feminism is the belief that women should have equal political, social, sexual, intellectual and economic rights.
According to some, the history of feminism can be divided into three waves. The first wave was in the nineteenth and early twentieth century, the second was in the 1960s and 1970s, and the third extends from the 1990s to the present.
Well, I don’t want to go into this high funda which will talk about lots of feminist theory involving its history, geography or philosophy. I am here to talk about what feminism is from my stand point.
To start with this, I truly believe that Men and Women are equal in every respect. And if we demand this we have to understand this equality… I will be of course giving some example of my life what this eqality means to me..Equality not only means that we should be treated by the society equally, given equal status as the men are being treated. This also means we demand neither more nor less. Me as a person I would like to be treated as a human being not as a woman. I personally immensely hate the concept of Ladies seats in the bus or train….Every favors given to the women in our society, be it the favors given in the form of ladies seats, greater income tax exemptions, and many other things reminds me that being a woman I am weaker than men and that is the reason being I am given all this favors by my society, my country. Please give me a break.. I don’t think that in this age when Woman can drive the space-crafts really needs such favors..
In my case if I don’t get back seats in auto-rickshaws, I don’t mind sitting in the front left or right seat…I don’t hesitate for a second also..I will not be expecting that any man sitting in the backseat with sacrifice his seat for me…
There are many other incidences like this.. The one I remember right now is once while I was traveling back to home from office I boarded a crowded bus.. I didn’t get a seat, only somehow managed to stand. A guy who was sitting before me offered me the seat and I told him thanks but no thanks, If I am in your place I wouldn’t have offered you the seat..And the fact that disturbed me was that he was offering the seat to me because he realized that being a woman it was becoming hard for me to stand in the crowd. But I knew I can because when hell number of people like me is standing like that, why can’t me.
I also know many of you and lots of others won’t agree with me, but this is how I look down to feminism. This is the facts that till today Women are looked down as weaker species, an object of sympathy. Feminism to me relates to a woman’s self respect, her independence, her confidence, her modernity..(Here I would like to add Modernity as a concept is very relative, Modernity to me doesn’t mean wearing modern clothes but having modern thoughts, positive attitude in progressing own self as well as helping others to progress.. To me Woman like Mother Teresa was Modern in the truest sense)..Feminism means in true sense loving and respecting individuals, empathize weak, olds and destitute and building owns position in the society not by snatching rights or fighting saying we are women and give our rights but by our own goodness, own willpower, own determination. When we demand equalities we should understand what equality means. Women are the creators, preservers, enhancers and nourishers. By no means They should be looked down with sympathy, with ignorance, or as the object dominated easily..

Relating to this I would like to say something about a very famous line “Behind every successful man there is a woman”..According to me this line is again meant to be said so that women should always remain behind a man…This flattering line tells that okay we men are acknowledging you, so keep staying behind us and support us to success… Girls don’t be happy with these flattering words anymore because this is the time of making ourselves successful by leading from the front not staying behind ….
I would like to end up this discussion with the words of the Great monk who is also my idol Swami Vivekanand. He once said that-
“The Soul has neither sex, nor caste, nor imperfection. Soul has no sex, It is neither male nor female. It is only in the body that sex exists, and the man who desires to reach the spirit cannot at the same time hold sex distinctions…”
He also added that-
“The best thermometer to the progress of a nation is its treatment of its women."
Inspired by Him I would say I am proud to be a woman..I can do anything and everything, even time and space are nothing in compared to my nature, I am Infinite, ..Swamiji believed “Soham”, “Soham”, “Soham”, means “He is me”, “he is me”, “he is me” If deeper we go through this word it means that “he” means Brahma, the creator, the almighty, the great power and force of nature is within me..If Brahma is within all of us who are we to distinct us as man or woman.
It is being said that Adam was the first, God created on this earth, I want to add that, yes, its very true God created Adam first and then he suddenly realized that okay now my hands are set so I can create far better than this. And he created Eve.